Get to Know
Dr. Erica Shick
Relationship and Dating Consultant | Intuitive Reiki Master/Teacher | Licensed Therapist
Hey there!
I’m Dr. Erica.
I’m Dr. Erica Shick, PhD! As a therapist, coach, mom, intuitive, and fellow traveler on this journey of life, my interest in mental health began when I witnessed a parent’s recovery process. My fascination with science, combined with the inspiring changes I observed, motivated me to reflect on my own life experiences and dedicate myself to helping others.
Through my clients' stories, friendships, and my own relationship experiences, I transitioned from being a psychotherapist to a relationship and dating consultant. This shift allows me to help women navigate the complexities of dating and extend my support beyond clinical practice. My approach combines evidence-based clinical knowledge, coaching, and intuitive guidance to create a personalized experience for you in my consulting services.
I bring a diverse background, having worked in hospital settings, private practice, and nonprofit leadership. My focus now is on creating a supportive space for women who aspire to improve their lives and are ready to identify what holds them back - moving women beyond trauma, grief, and their own BS that keeps them trapped.
“My life’s passion is to help women live their best lives possible.”
It’s no secret that relationships are the foundation of a happy and fulfilling life.
I help women cultivate joyful, fulfilling, and authentic relationships with themselves, and with their partners.
Whether you’re here to do some self exploration, level up your dating journey, or deepen your current intimate relationships, I am here to help!
Keep reading to learn more about me and how we can work together. If you have any questions, you can contact me directly using the form at the bottom of this page.
A Little Bit About Me
Mom Life
One of the most rewarding periods of my life was when I was a stay-at-home mom before going back to school. My first marriage was shaped by family expectations and focused more on practicality than love. From that marriage, I have two young adult daughters who are now pursuing their own dreams! I relate to the challenges faced by both mothers and young adult college students, drawing from my own experiences as a mom and as a cheerleader for my daughters and clients.
Soulmate Marriage
I met Dan unexpectedly while pursuing my PhD in 2018. After a few years of building a strong friendship, we became the couple that others aspired to be. Our bond was rooted in unconditional support and a shared love for our nerdy hobbies. We exchanged vows at his bedside just before he lost his battle with gastric cancer in the summer of 2024. I believe our meeting was no accident; he entered my life as a guiding force, helping me realign with the path I was meant to follow. Dan played a crucial role in my journey of self-discovery, teaching me invaluable lessons about relationships that no amount of formal training could provide. My hope is that my career will empower you to find and experience the love of your dreams.
Today
Since relocating to St. Louis, I have created the life I always dreamed of, even while navigating through grief. For me, this means pursuing a fulfilling career, embracing new adventures, and engaging in hobbies that bring me joy. After witnessing my clients endure challenging and sometimes unsafe experiences with online dating, I developed a process to empower women to date confidently and safely. I became frustrated hearing reports of borderline sexual assault and low-quality dates from my clients. My transition from therapist to consultant enables me to reach more women and address their needs beyond just clinical concerns.
My Professional Background & Training
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Ph.D. in Organizational Development, Benedictine University (Lisle, IL), 2021.
Masters of Science in Clinical Psychology, Benedictine University (Lisle, IL), 2012.
Bachelors of Art in Psychology, Argosy University (Schaumburg, IL), 2010. Focus on Substance Abuse.
Usui Reiki, Master Level, March 2015
LILAC Healing, Certificate Level 1 (2020) and Teacher Training (2023), Background on how LILAC (Living in Light and Consciousness) - Unlike Reiki, which brings the Universal Light Energy from the higher realms to this physical world, LILAC is the Divine Source Energy that is opened by the practitioner while working in the higher spiritual realms. All work is done in the higher realms, which unlocks the potential of bypassing the physical mind and process of reprogramming and healing while being in the lower energy.
My Approach
You are the Foundation
Effective Dating is Rooted in Psychology
Supporting You Through the Process
Happy Clients
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"Dr. Erica made me feel accepted, comfortable and not judged."
Judy
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"Dr. Shick has helped me discover my patterns of behavior that were holding me back from achieving my goals. Upon recognition of these behaviors, and through working with her, I have the confidence and skills to make different choices and feel strong."
Jen
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"Working with Dr. Erica Shick helped me gain skills to give me the courage and confidence to move
Alyssa
“And whether your relationship is awful, good, or great
We don't like endings
We don't like to lose things
And especially, we don't like to lose things that are important to us
And make no mistake
Relationships are the single most important thing to you and your life
It's the source of all of your best memories
It's the source of all of your worst memories
When you think back on your life
And you're 95, a hundred years old
And you look back over the course of your lifetime
You're not gonna think
I wish I owned a better phone
I wish I spent more time on the internet
I wish I spent more time at work or sleeping
It's not gonna be any of those kinds of things
It's gonna be I wish I spent more time with the people I love.”
Quote from: Break-Ups Don’t Have to Leave You Broken | Gary Lewandowski | TEDxNavesink https://youtu.be/Cw2qD87KDHc
It’s Time to Transform Your Love Life
Dating is not about finding someone to complete you; it’s about finding someone who complements the amazing person you already are. Ready to get started? Click the button below to learn more about how you can work with Dr. Erica, or, send Dr. Erica a message using the contact form below:
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Dr. Erica
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